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How Do You Get Close to Someone You Like?

How do you reach out, show you care, and want to spend time with someone you like? Twelve everyday moments sort it into a love-personality card.

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When you want to see someone, do you speak up first? When you're preparing something thoughtful for them, do you want to make their heart skip, or make everyday life easier? Twelve moments together sort your pace of getting close, how you express yourself, and how you want to spend time, into one love-personality card.

Think of the same partner, or someone you've been getting to know, over the last three months, and pick whichever first move feels more natural. Every scenario assumes both people respect each other's wishes and can comfortably say no; if you don't have anyone in mind, you can imagine someone, but the result only reflects that imagined scene. None of the eight types ranks above another, and none of them judges loyalty, how deeply you love, or who's the right match. You'll come away with one everyday scene, and one line that says clearly what you need.

12 questions · About 3 min · No account needed

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Q1. You want to talk a little more with someone, and you're both free right now. What's more likely for you?
Q2. You're sure you want to see them again, and they've said they'd like to stay in touch too. What's your next move more likely to be?
Q3. You both want to spend more time together but haven't decided what to do next. You're more likely to?
Q4. You want them to know how much you've valued the time together lately. The moment that feels most natural is?
Q5. Both gifts fit your budget and you're sure either one would suit them. Which one are you more drawn to?
Q6. They send you a song and say "this reminded me of you." What are you more likely to do next?
Q7. After a small disagreement, you've both owned your part, and you're ready to talk about how to do better. Which side do you want to start with?
Q8. They mention they've been a bit busy lately, and either kind of care would be welcome. What do you think of first?
Q9. The weekend is wide open, and you can both choose freely. How do you want to split the time?
Q10. On an ordinary evening, what does your ideal amount of overlap look like?
Q11. They'll be away for a few days, and you can decide together how to stay in touch. What do you prefer?
Q12. You both feel the relationship is steady now, and want to talk about the pace going forward. What do you want to hold onto?

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