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You can put in the effort, and still let them say how much they can give
You can put in the effort, and still let them say how much they can give.
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If keeping in touch has started to feel like you're the only one arranging things, look at what's actually happening first, rather than jumping straight to deciding the other person doesn't care. This page isn't asking for equal give-and-take on every single occasion — it's just a reminder that a long-running pattern is something you're allowed to bring up.
Some people initiate meetups, others show up more once you're together; time constraints can differ too. Sort out first whether it's a different style, or whether the other person genuinely isn't interested in showing up. Don't force a conclusion by secretly keeping score, and don't automatically take on all the planning just to keep the relationship going.
You could say: "I'd really like to find time to meet up — could you suggest one or two times that work for you?" Then see how they actually respond, and adjust how much you put in based on your own energy. If they can't manage it right now, they can say so, and you get to decide how you're willing to wait. This random page isn't choosing the relationship for you — it's just turning both sides' willingness into something that can be asked about, and seen.
A randomly drawn, original reflection page, for entertainment only; it does not predict the future or make big decisions for you. Skip anything that doesn't fit where you are right now.
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