What's Your Love Red Flag?

いま、きみの恋を読みこみ中。

10 questions

Start with your first instinct

Choose the answer that feels most like you. Your result appears after every question is complete.

Q1. Your partner has been liking a stranger's stories pretty frequently lately. Your first reaction is —

Quietly tap into that person's profile and spend half an hour scrolling through it Feel nothing obvious, but somehow start replying to messages way more slowly that day Casually ask: "Have you been making new friends lately?" Feel uncomfortable inside, but convince yourself it shouldn't matter and push it down

Q2. You just finished an argument and now you're both in a tense, wordless cooling-off period. What are you most likely doing?

Lying in bed, restless, replaying every single thing that was said on a mental loop Turn your phone face-down and decide to wait — you're not reaching out first Mentally reviewing every point where they went wrong, rehearsing what you'll say next time Send a message asking: "Are you okay? Are we okay?"

Q3. Your partner says they're going out with friends but doesn't mention who or where. You would —

Feel a little uneasy inside, but hold back because asking seems like it would be weird Figure that even if you asked, they might not tell you the truth, so why bother Smile and ask: "Who are you going with? What time will you be back?" — you need the details to feel settled Send a "have fun" text, then check every so often to see if they've replied

Q4. You notice your partner has been a bit cooler toward you lately — not as warm as usual. The first thing you do is —

Work harder than usual to keep the conversation going, not wanting things to feel awkward Ask directly: "Is something bothering you lately?" — you want to understand what's going on Wonder if you've done something wrong, then try to find ways to cheer them up Just come out and ask: "Do you have a problem with me? Are we okay?"

Q5. You've been waiting nearly an hour at the agreed meeting spot and your partner still hasn't shown up or texted. You —

Start imagining all sorts of scenarios, some of which make your heart race Decide to head home and wait for them to reach out — you don't feel like explaining yourself today Call them, keeping your voice calm, even though you've already rehearsed what you're going to say Call three times to make sure they're safe, then say once you're relieved: "You scared me."

Q6. You and your partner have settled into a quieter phase — the early spark isn't as bright. What's on your mind?

Is my partner more enthusiastic with other people lately? Or have they only gone cooler toward me? This is just how relationships go. Nothing much to say — saying something probably won't change anything anyway Maybe we need a plan — a regular date night, phone-off time, something like that As long as they're still here, a quieter season is fine. I don't want to put pressure on them

Q7. Your partner has to travel to an unfamiliar city for work for a whole week. The thing you most want to ask is —

Are any colleagues going along? Who exactly? Nothing — you just say "good luck" and wait for them to message first Look up good restaurants near their hotel for them, and casually ask what time they'll be done each day Will you remember to send me a good morning text? How are we going to stay in touch this week?

Q8. Your partner mentions an opposite-sex friend you've never heard of — says they've known each other since college. You —

Make a mental note of the name and later quietly look them up on social media Respond with "Oh, cool," then let the topic drift without asking more Ask a few questions and mention you'd love to meet them sometime React with no real expression, but start silently asking yourself: do they talk more to her than to me?

Q9. Your partner cancels your plans today because a friend made a last-minute invitation. Your first reaction is —

Say "it's fine," then reply to their messages in shorter bursts for the next couple of days Feel a bit annoyed, but say: "Okay — let's reschedule, and next time block out the time for us first" Say "go have fun," then find something to fill the afternoon on your own Ask: "What time do you think you'll be home? Can you message me when you're back?" — you need to know what comes next

Q10. Something crosses your mind that makes you suddenly wonder if your partner still feels as deeply as before. You —

Scroll back through your recent messages to see if their tone has shifted Push the thought down — bringing it up would only make things feel weird Create more chances to spend time together, testing things through actions rather than feelings alone Come right out and say: "I've been feeling a little insecure lately — can you tell me you still like me?"